Tutorials to do this eye look and the 2nd lip look?

Hi guys! My (Pakistani) wedding is coming up in October, and bc of budget I'm going to have to do my own makeup and I'm really good at doing a solid base that doesn't budge at all, but I rarely do eye makeup and was wondering if anyone know what specifically the girl in the first video did to her eye makeup to give it that huge, anime -eyes effect without looking cartoonish?

Also, if anyone has a tutorial or can pinpoint what colors it seems like they used in the lips on the 2nd look? I love how blended it is, but I actually think that brown lip liner color is completely the wrong shade on her and looks like she ate a bit of mud 😅

Also, I'm that 2nd photo, it looks like there's highlighter on her cheekbone on either side of her nose also, kind of like shiny dewy look, does anyone have highlighter recommendations?

Thank you!