i need my lash extensions off!!

i got my eyelash extensions done about a month ago, they’ve held up a lot better than i thought they would and i still have quite a few on, the amount i have on though isn’t quite enough for them to actually look full so when i have makeup on i end up looking like i have no eyelashes. i have a lash minute important event tonight where i really need to look my best and for the past couple days ive been scrambling trying to find an esthetician who can take me for a removal but everyone is closed or fully booked. i’ve tried steaming my lashes, olive & coconut oil, pulling them out myself, everything. im starting to wonder if it’s worth it to just curl them and put mascara over top but i really don’t want to damage my natural lashes. what do i do??